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Old March 20th, 2022, 07:16 PM
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Default Re: I need some advice. :/

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Originally Posted by poppy. View Post

I think that what's most important is that you're not stuck in a relationship that you don't feel any attraction in, and that she's not being led on. Just explain to her that you really like her, but don't feel that way abt her anymore, and if you're comfortable just explain that you have been experiencing more attraction to guys, so she understands she didn't do anything wrong. Like I said, it's important to be in a healthy fulfilling relationship where the attraction is mutual
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Originally Posted by Zesha View Post
I agree with poppy, just be honest. Tell her that you're just not feeling the attraction to her anymore, through no fault of her own. You may wish to wait a few days though if you have any kind of mental illness, as those can tend to make you feel like you've fallen out of love with people when you're having a rough patch. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you luck and the very best
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Originally Posted by Riverfly View Post
Oh, don't worry! Were here to help you! I've had the same problem (I wouldn't call it a problem) too! I would suggest telling her very VERY calmly and nicely, as not to break her heart. Try not to make it too sweat and sugarcoated though, or she might not take it seriously and you won't get your point across.
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thank you all, I will try these. <3
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